The Unruly Mom Blog
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Growing More Than Plants
A mom's journey through creating spaces that nurtures both plants and souls, parenting three boys, navigating ADHD, and container gardening.
Here's to embracing the chaos and joy of parenting together!
Laurie's Garden
Embrace the Joy & Chaos of Parenting!
Welcome to my space — a blend of family stories, practical tips, and heartfelt encouragement for parents raising amazing kids who happen to learn and grow differently. I share the real-life moments of raising three boys, exploring what works, and finding joy in both the calm and the chaos.
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Over the years, I’ve discovered creative ways to support my kids’ growth and learning styles. From ADHD-friendly play ideas to routines that help everyone feel more grounded, this blog is where I gather those lessons so other parents can benefit from them too.
Everyday Wins
Sometimes it’s as simple as a pile of blocks — giving kids the freedom to design their own castle, build their own town, or imagine a world entirely their own. These small wins help foster focus, creativity, and confidence, all while keeping the fun alive.
Practical Tips & Tools
You’ll find posts on activities, tools, and strategies inspired by trusted resources like Understood.org, adapted from my own family’s trial and error. I share what’s made a difference for us — from sensory-friendly play setups to organizing spaces for calmer days.
Community & Support
I also spotlight the services, local programs, and online communities that have helped us feel less alone on this journey. My hope is that this blog becomes a hub where parents can find ideas, resources, and reassurance that they’re doing an amazing job.
An Open Invitation
So whether you’re here to gather fresh activity ideas, learn about ADHD-friendly supports, or just find a relatable voice in the parenting trenches, you’re welcome here. Let’s share, learn, and celebrate the little moments that make a big difference.
Inspiration for Backyard Spaces
Choose Your Starting Point
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Schedule regular check-ins:
Create predictable times to talk (e.g., after school or during a car ride) to reduce pressure and build routine. -
Use clear, concrete language:
Be specific about what you’re asking or describing; avoid vague phrases that can cause confusion. -
Offer multiple communication channels:
Provide options like speaking, writing, drawing, or using apps, so they can choose the method that feels safest.
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Ask open-ended, low-pressure questions:
“What was the best part of your day?” or “What was hard for you today?” invite elaboration without judgment. -
Respect processing time:
Some kids need more time to think before answering—pause patiently, don’t fill the silence. -
Normalize differences in communication styles:
Acknowledge that thinking, processing, and expressing thoughts can look different from one child to another.